In life, we have to find the motivation to fight, to say forget it, I don't deserve this, and strive for better. We need to know when to let go, and when to move on. Continue to make it happen, but do it for you, in your own time. Be genuine, and remain motivated by your own desires—not by what you think others expect from you. You never know when the slot machine of life is going to pay out big. The house often wins, but if you keep playing, and you keep trying, your luck will surely improve. Embrace the small things that can change your day, like having a good conversation with a friend, or greeting a stranger on the street.
(March 21-April 19)
This is the month where I really get to focus on the “self” stuff, the things I’ve been meaning to do for myself, but never get around to doing. This type of stuff is really important to me. It grounds me. It helps me find my truth. I like to win, but it sometimes feel like life is setting me up for a fall. This is natural. I have to take the tumble with pride. I have to look at the big picture of everyone’s lives and realize that sometimes it is okay, and that it even makes sense to make an error. You have to accept that you’re only human, and born to make mistakes. Falling down gives you strength, and lets you rise up, despite whatever. Noticing this with your loved ones is good as well: accepting and loving people for who they are is key. Stop trying to always change everything or add something or go somewhere. Not everything has to be an action. Sometimes it’s better just to let things be. Reach out to people when you need to let out off steam. Don’t suppress your feelings, let them out, and don’t even be shy: be obnoxious about it!
(April 20-May 20)
For the people that matter to me, I have a lot of love in my heart. Sometimes I hold back and let something be—yet with the people I love, that loving urge is often there, but tends to go away when I am frustrated. I want what I want, and I won’t settle, but I do think that I will have to wait—because in the past, most of the best things have come to me in time. Then, there are some matters that haven’t shown their true colours yet. These issues haven’t been sorted out properly, and there’s still a lot in the works. Much can happen. It’s fine though, I don’t have to have it all figured out, even if I won’t stop calculating it all in my head. I know I am at my best when I am able to sit back, relax, and have a good laugh. The little things are pretty important to me. I just have to learn to let the trivial stuff go, and focus on what really matters.
(May 21-June 21)
I say things. It’s not that I mean to say things in a bad way, but sometimes, especially if I’m intoxicated, I can say something highly inappropriate. I don’t even remember what I am saying. I have no control over my tongue. It’s fine, I always send my apologies out the next day, but it doesn’t stop me from feeling terrible. That’s not really who I am. Everyone knows a Gemini can say one, two, or a hundred things they don’t mean. I can’t help it if I focus on what is important to me, and who is important to me. I know who I don’t want to associate with, and I make that pretty clear. Sure, there are a lot of people I would party with, and I’m down with my work colleagues, but the list of people that I open my heart up to is pretty short. I can be ruled by anxiety: I literally bounce from one place to the next. I can’t stop. I have a complex mind, and I need to be stimulated most of the time. Don’t get me wrong, I love to relax (when I can). I’m all for that quality Netflix and chill time (but not binge-watching Stranger Things, solo if you know what I mean). It’s just that, on the whole, I like to keep things exciting in my life.
(June 21-July 22)
I have learned that I am happiest when I am doing my own thing. For me, by me. I do want to be in charge, despite my Cancer ways, but I want to be in charge of something I like. Something that I am good at, something that will sell. Though, it’s really not all about the money in this case. I’ve been making moves in my life that will advance me towards my goal. I want to be a part of projects that I am passionate about—without authority figures. I don’t always talk about it (at least not in too much detail), but I do think a lot about the future, and what I could plan for ahead. I want to start and be part of something I am proud of, even if that is a trip across the world. I want to say I am a lot more goal-orientated than people think. I’m a water sign: I was born to dream. Finding the hustle to my flow will be essential, as I need a little muscle to help me stay a float.
(July 23-August 22)
I see things that bother me and I try to ignore them, but I can’t help it. I do have an ego, and I am sensitive to what people say, especially if it’s negative. Most importantly, I need to feel like my partner sees me as strong, and truly values my input. I want to have my say. I feel I could excel in these next coming years, and that I have the potential to really make it, but sometimes the personal stuff gets in the way of the dream. I don’t want to run away from things or problems, but sometimes it’s easier to pack up, leave, and do something fun, rather than have some big, long annoying conversation about it. I do want to say how I feel more, I just don’t want to go over things like a broken record. I want seamless communication that goes perfectly—if only everything could always go perfectly. I know it can’t, so I’m going to take it day by day, and just hope for the best. It could get better, or it could worse, but I’d like to believe that time will take me where I need to be.
(August 23-September 22)
Work is very important to me, which is why I try to do a really above and beyond job. I invest my time into work, and put everything else last. This has affected my relationships in the past, but my mate knows that I like to be producing and showing my sign of service at all times. At work and at home, I give a lot—but I play the field nice and cool. I don’t rush into forever with just anybody. This usually requires a lot of thinking. I can’t help but size people up, I have a strong analytical side to me. I see people for what they are, and for what they stand for. I know if someone is giving money out of obligation, or if someone is trying to slide their way out of the cheque. I have very strong instincts, and once I have an instinct about you, it will be really hard for me to forget it. I am prone to that “forgive them, don’t forget them” ideology. I like to focus on the facts, and if the facts show that you’ve led me into trouble in the past, that could very well indicate future trouble. I try to coast as much as I can with people who don’t matter to me, but with the ones I love, my head is always above water.
(September 23-October 22)
I can rely on friends to help me through, but I know I need to find my own way too. Sometimes I need too much, not necessarily materially, but emotionally I can demand a lot from other people. I am a demanding friend because I expect to be involved. This usually isn’t a problem because I’m often chosen and included. I am happiest in the mix of things. I also admire the all-loving neutral who has no problems with anyone, and gets along with everyone. Libra is often known as having multiple marriages, in that they might be married, but they are also married to their friend. I am a sign who looks both ways, and admires the beauty of both streets. Libra is usually open sexually, and will explore different sexes, and various relationship dynamics. I also enjoy one-on-one intimacy and love, though it is common for me to be the one less interested in the relationship. Libra is like a butterfly: I don’t like to stay one place too long, but if I do, it means we’ve found a true match.
(October 23-November 21)
I’m really going to try to remember all the wise stuff that I said to myself when I was drunk. I am often too busy working hard, running around and doing stuff for others, that I often forget to address my own wounds. When I’m insecure, I’m likely throw myself at potential partners, while me at my securest tends to avoid love like the plague. I may dance to love’s tune a little, but I usually have other priorities when I am single. When I’m partnered up, I am a hopeless and devoted lover. Sure, sometimes Scorpio is hard to find. I am mysterious and introverted about a lot of things, and I have plenty of secrets of my own. Whatever I’m doing, I need to make sure it’s something I really love. For Scorpios, happiness really does matter, and excuses are exactly that: excuses. It’s never too late. It’s my happiness, I am going to go after it at all costs.
(November 22-December 21)
I only get angry when I am upset, and I don’t like to be upset. I like to be friendly and fun, like that person who works the room and the waitstaff, and somehow gets everyone a discount. I want things to go my way. There, I said it. I try really hard to make the most out of life, but sometimes it feels like a lot of work, and for what exactly? I’ll get there, I just want to be doing it all, all too soon. I’m content with a steady pay cheque though, and some people to love me, and spend time with me. Truthfully, there is a part of me that likes to be alone, and I will take my space for that. It might seem like I am 24-energy, but I certainly have my moments where I need my privacy. I have been known to pick adventure over romance; well, really I just want them both: I want to find a partner who loves to travel and do things. I want to see the world on my own dime, but if someone takes me there fully-expensed, I won’t complain either.
(December 22- January 19)
If I tell you I’m totally cool, and laid back, and not judging you, I’m lying. I can’t help but be a bit black and white sometimes, and I don’t always have the right words. I have practical knowledge, but I don’t have the ability to soothe you. I can reason with you. I can take care of you. I will do anything to get your validation, but I won’t toot my own horn. I want stuff. There, I said it: I want stuff. Most Capricorns are workhorses who want to make it big, so it’s no secret that I have big dreams for myself. I am attracted to that life of luxury and prestige. I want a partner who compliments. Someone I wouldn’t consider leaving. I would even have a partner who is established in their own light, so that we could be a team, some kind of a power couple. Capricorn wants the finer things in life. They’re lying to you if they say they don’t. The truth is, if I’m hard-working, I usually get everything they desire. You get what you work for, or in Capricorn’s case, what you won’t give up on.
(January 19-February 18)
If you’re a friend, I’m not going to be able to see you on the regular. It doesn’t change how close we are, I honestly just have so much going on all the time. I have a lot of different friends that I’ve bonded with across the world on various occasions. My schedule gets full fast. Not to say that I don’t have a partner or best friends that I see often. It is actually more likely that Aquarius will be single then taken, but when I am in a partnership, it’s usually with someone who can hold their own. Aquarius isn’t really the babysitter type: I have a wandering eye for adventure. Sometimes Aquarius needs to not let other people’s choices affect them. My concept of love, and accepting people for who they are is also important here. Aquarius has high expectations of love, and sometimes I don’t see that my life is going a whole lot better than I think it is. Aquarius always needs to be counting their blessings. I’m learning not ask for less, and say thank you for what I’ve already got.
I’m still waiting for it to be time, and the wait has got me on edge. It’s the wait for something good. Sure, there are good things in my life, but I am waiting for that big moment. I need to start my empire. Pisces are so gifted and talented, but they lack the pushy quality of getting there first. The potential for networking is in me, but I’ve got to figure out how to make effective connections. Pisces is all about doing the next big thing, and creating wow-material. This could be a time to start planning for new tactics, which will benefit my life. I’m going to stay positive, and know that it’s really just a matter of time. As last in the Zodiac, Pisces is destined to wait. In work, friendship and love, I am bound to hit the jackpot. But first, before I can find success, I must believe that I can have the things that I want.